This was the session that almost wasn’t. We were all scheduled and set to shoot Saturday morning, but when I woke up and looked outside, it was heartbreakingly dark and disappointingly misty. Between the clients’ schedules and mine, there was no chance of moving the session to another day. So we postponed it as long as we could, held our breathes, said a silent prayer, and hoped for the best. And it worked!!! (Personally, felt like it was a bit of a Christmas miracle… just sayin’!) The weather turned out to be just fine for shooting and even though the session was closer to nap time for the little guy, he was a trooper! The result- beautiful fall pictures of a darling family!
Rachel McHardy Photography: Baton Rouge Family Photographer
Rachel McHardy is one of the premier Baton Rouge family photographers. She specializes in contemporary family, children, newborn, and senior photography.
Disclaimer: I know that every woman is different and her body responds uniquely to pregnancy. This is just MY experience during the first trimester! Second, I am going to be completely honest in this post, which may come across as complaining. I just want to state for the record how incredibly excited and blessed beyond belief I feel about the pregnancy… but that doesn’t change the fact that I intend to document the experience in its entirety- the good, the bad, the in between. Don’t say I didn’t warn you! 1. Pregnancy nausea is not always present from the get-go. I took my pregnancy test on a whim. I was 90% I wasn’t pregnant (ha! My instincts are awesome) because at the time, I was feeling fine. In fact, I felt better than fine. I had energy, my spirits were exceptionally high, my health was perfect… I was great! When I found out that I was, pregnant (I was only about 5 weeks along) I remember saying to Rory, “If this is how pregnancy is, let’s have 17 kids!” (I was joking- just for the record) THAT is how great I felt in the beginning. Then week 7 rolled around… 2. What I craved one day made me absolutely nauseous the next… and beyond. Around week 7 I got this serious craving for tomato soup. I ordered some at Jason’s Deli one night and honestly, could not stop thinking about it for the next 12 hours. So, I looked up a homemade tomato soup recipe, went to the store specifically for the soup ingredients, and proceeded to use the next 2.5 hours of my life to make this glorious roasted tomato basil soup recipe. And it was fantastic! I ate two bowls that night and was thrilled at the quantity of leftovers. Soup for a week! How wonderful!… then I woke up the next day. The idea that I EVER wanted tomato soup completely confounded me. I STILL don’t want tomato soup (I don’t even like THINKING about tomato soup while I’m typing this), and the exact same thing happened with beef enchiladas and chicken pesto pasta. Tragic! Which brings me to my 3rd lesson… 3. Pregnancy nausea is no joke. And the term “morning sickness”? Total misnomer! More like all day and night nausea, and the… (oh, how do I say this delicately?) upward expulsion of food would happen suddenly and unpredictably. The thought, the smell, and the sight of food all made me nauseous making going to the grocery store a particularly fun time! 4. Pregnancy brings a whole new level of exhaustion. Before I was pregnant, I remember some of my friends mentioning they were really tired during their first trimester, but even though I had heard that it was a symptom, I seriously underestimated the magnitude! I’m typically not a good sleeper. Never have been. I didn’t sleep through the night until I was about 2 years old (my poor mother!). I can only sleep in my bed, no noise, when it’s nice and dark, and even then I still struggle with bad insomnia. But around week 7, I started sleeping like a champ! Taking naps, early to bed, asleep the second my head hit the pillow, late to wake up… I was ALWAYS tired. 5. The tummy starts expanding already. My baby was about the size of a grape, so why my stomach needed to get bigger already was totally baffling. (I guess it has something to do with your stomach getting ready for the upcoming months… or something). The changes were very acute and probably only perceptible to me. 6. I had to SERIOUSLY cut down on my to-do list. I only took on 1 session my entire first trimester. I simply didn’t have the energy… not to mention, I didn’t think it would make a great impression if I, eh-hem, “lost my lunch” (not that I had the appetite to actually eat lunch… but you get the point). I also gave myself just one task to do around the house (vacuum, dust, etc.) and as long as I did that one task, I gave myself permission to nap as needed. 7. The sheer number of people in the world is baffling. I know every single woman experiences pregnancy differently… but still…. 8. Having a cold during your first trimester was like the kiss of death. I couldn’t take anything that actually worked for me, what little appetite my nauseous body had managed to disappear, and even though I just wanted to rest, I couldn’t because my airway was completely clogged. I repeat- kiss of death. 9. It is possible to lose weight in the first trimester. See lessons #3 and #8. (In case you are wondering- I managed to put it back on with a vengeance once my nausea subsided a bit!) 10. Even though it meant feeling nauseous, bloated, exhausted, and possible even irritable, I was already starting to love, fiercely love, the tiny miracle growing inside me. This is me at about 9 weeks! I love, love, LOVE when I get return clients. It is so much fun to see the kids grow and to be lucky enough to document those changes. That’s exactly the case with these two guys! Not only have they grown up physically over the past year, but they also act older too. I had such a blast with them- we laughed and laughed and laughed! Thank you, boys for letting me be your photographer and being such a delight to work with!
“Listen to the mustn’ts, child. Listen to the don’ts. Listen to the shouldn’ts, the impossibles, the won’ts. Listen to the never haves, then listen close to me… anything can happen, child. Anything can be.” – Shel Silverstein I love photographing children. I really do. Especially when I get to photograph them individually. Children wear their personalities on their sleeves, and once they see me less as an adult and more as a new friend, the quicker that individual personality pops up. With adults, I often have to tell them to “bring the smile to their eyes.” I never have to tell kids such things. We laugh, we play, we have a good time. The look of wonder, the look of joy, the look of contentment all come easily to children. And that, is a beautiful thing. I think Halloween is fantastic! I really do. I love the costumes, the creativity, the decorations… pretty much everything but the scary stuff (and even that I can handle in small, small doses). I haven’t always had this love for Halloween. In fact, my feelings towards All Hallow’s Eve has pretty much been all across the spectrum, from the attitude of I get to dress up AND people give me candy?! Halloween should be EVERY day! when I was little to there’s nothing to do on this lame holiday; I’m just going to study for my AP test in high school, to seeing it as an opportunity to challenge my frugality. Let’s take a look at my 25 years of Halloween. Note: I come from a family that DID NOT take pictures… like ever. So there are very few photos the first 18 years. Furthermore, many photos are scanned, so forgive the poor quality. Halloween 1987- The consensus between my parents is that I was exempt from costumes that year, seeing as how I was 3 months old. Halloween 1988- I have been informed that I was a bean sprout. I believe my grandma made the costume. Why a bean sprout? I have no idea. Halloween 1989- Being only two years old that year, I have absolutely no idea what I was that year nor does my mom. This is why you take pictures, people! Halloween 1990- I believe I was an angel that year. Although it really doesn’t matter what I was because it flippin’ snowed that year and my costume was hidden under a ginormous winter coat. Also, I can finally show a picture! Ok… so maybe it’s not from Halloween per say, (it’s our “Joy School” nativity performance) but you get the gist of what I wore. That’s me, second kid from the left. Halloween 1991- At this point I was in my all things girly, sparkly, and pink phase. Therefore, I was princess. As you can see, my costume is in deed girly, sparkly, and oh so pink. The cute kitty in the picture next to me is McKenzie, my next-door neighbor at the time. Halloween 1992- My first year as something “spooky.” I was a witch that year. At the time I thought I was pretty scary. Now I think back on it and realize I was probably far scarier the next morning having gotten little sleep and lots of candy. Side note, I’m mad because I KNOW there is a picture somewhere from this year. The photo is of my dad, my little sister, and me. My little sister had inherited the bean sprout costume that year. Halloween 1993- Halloween 1993 was actually kind of a big deal. My friend Tess and I got the idea (in the summer, I think) that we wanted to do a “Spook Alley” in my legitimately frightening unfinished basement. We drew pictures of ghosts with blood dripping from their eyes and other such terrifying images. My parents were actually really cool about it and made what probably would have been a sad, sorry flop into a neighborhood event. When the kids came, my mom lead them to our basement letting them feel the “eyeballs” and “brains” (peeled grapes and cooked spaghetti noodles, respectively). My dad was in one of the rooms howling and moaning. I was around the corner, in my devil costume, to scare them as they left. I’m sure there was more, but that’s all I can remember. I do remember feeling extremely cool because no one else had a haunted house in their basement. Oh, and one more thing! My dad had an old mechanic suit that we stuffed with newspaper. For a head we gave it one of those reaper masks. We named the creation “Butch.” During the “off-season” (November-September) he sat in our basement, making our already creepy basement creepier. I remember lying awake at nights scared that Butch was going to walk up the stairs and find me. Tess, left. Me, right. Don’t really know what’s going on with my penciled in eyebrows… Halloween 1994- This was the first and only year I ever got a store bought costume. I was Snow White. I remember thinking how cool it was that I got to wear a wig and feeling sorry for the other Snow Whites at school who didn’t get a sweet wig. Look at me… I’m practically glowing with pride about that wig! I’m pretty sure that it was a standard witch’s wig, but my mom cut and curled it, somehow making it work (kind of) for Snow White. Halloween 1995- From 1994-1996 I went through a cat lover phase. The ironic part about that phase, I somehow was able to convince my dad, er, I mean Santa to bring me a kitten, only to discover I was actually kind of afraid of kittens. Anyway, 1995 was the year of the black cat. Halloween 1996- I was a poodle girl… except, being in the cat loving phase that I was, instead of a poodle on my poodle skirt, there were two cats. Was I still considered a poodle girl with that adaptation, I wonder? Halloween 1997- One of my more comfortable years. I was a tourist. Black leggings, Hawaiian shirt, shell necklaces, leis, a camera, and a big straw hat. This year was also my first encounter with a streaker. At the time he seemed like an adult, but looking back, he was probably just in his late teens or early twenties. I remember I was so disturbed by the experience, that I was done trick or treating and wanted to go home soon after. Halloween 1998- I was a gypsie. Nothing significant to report. Halloween 1999- Alas! My final year trick or treating! I went as a waif. My mom rented an awesome vintage skirt for me- sort of a petticoat type thing. I remember I stepped on it going up a stair, ripping part of the hem, while trick or treating and fretting the whole night about it. I told my mom, bracing myself for a lecture, but she just said, “Oh, I can just fix that!” I was simultaneously grateful she was so cool about it and annoyed because I could have had a lot more fun that night if I knew she could fix it. Halloween 2001- Absolutely no recollection. Pretty sure the “Halloween is dumb” attitude started somewhere around here. Halloween 2002- I had a volleyball game that day. It was the last game of the season and my friend, Meg scored the final point, giving us the victory. An achievement that was made all the more glorious on account of, well, our team sort of sucked and to come off conqueror after such a close game made it that much sweeter. I know that’s not exactly Halloweenish, but whatever. Halloween 2003- Again, no recollection. I probably just studied for exams. Actually, come to think of it, this might have been the year I went with a group of friends to a Haunted House (not on the actual Halloween Day). I remember being in a hurry and not able to find a clean camisole, so I just threw on a pink tee shirt. That turned out to be a HUGE mistake as the white bra I was wearing underneath was totally glowing through when we got to the black light portion of the haunted house. Ugh. So embarrassing! Halloween 2004- I remember I went to a Barbershop/Ensemble choir party. My sister had a pair of sweet nerd glasses that she let me wear for my nerd costume. The only other thing I remember about the party was that my friend, Brooke, was a banana. I remember this A) because I had never seen full body yellow spandex and B) she used a cup and gathered her hair around and above it, which I thought was pretty clever. Halloween 2005- My first Halloween in college! I don’t think I did anything particularly exciting that day. I sort of remember handing out candy to the guys who came trick or treating. I do remember going to a theme party earlier that month (or was it the end of September?) which I’m going to count towards celebrating Halloween. The theme was “CEOs and Secretary Hoes”… but we went to BYU, so it ended up being more like “guys in cheap suits and conservatively dressed girls.” Amanda, me, Kylie, Ashley, Caitlin, and Cecilia. Apparently, we had two cameras going here. Amanda, me, Siena on what I believe was the actual Halloween night of 2005. Halloween 2006- I helped with my ward’s Halloween activity which we had the weekend before Halloween. I don’t remember anything about it, but I remember I helped! I know I dressed in black, stuck popcorn and candy wrappers all over me and went as “the floor of a movie theater.” On the actual Halloween day, my friends and I wore crazy tee shirts, hair, and make up. I believe we were “wild things.” Which makes me laugh thinking about it now because I realize just how unwild we truly were compared to many college girls our age. On left: me, as the floor of the movie theater. On right: Annie, who wasn’t in my ward, but was a great friend to help me with the activity anyway. Clockwise from top left: Kristen, Christine, Annie, me, Shelane, Amanda, Melissa… 7 of the least wild “wild things” Halloween 2007- I believe I was sick that year and stayed home. Halloween 2008- My roommates Elisa, Danielle and I went as Snap, Crackle, and Pop. I’m not sure who came up with the idea (I know it wasn’t me), but it was genius! We made the hats (and by we, I’m pretty sure I mean Danielle made mine). Shirts were DI finds. Embellishments were also homemade. From left to right: Me, Elisa, Danielle… Snap, Crackle, and Pop, respectively. Halloween 2009- I was lame that year and just wore my orange tights with the black skulls on them and a black dress. I didn’t even bother to buy a witches hat. Shame! Halloween 2010- That was the year I worked at a photo studio. I saw countless costumes- baby skunks, baby punks; marios and luigis galore; flowers, fairies, firefighters… you name it, parents dressed their kids up in it. Truth be told, I was glad when Halloween was over that year. You can only photograph so many babies dressed up in animal costumes before it gets a bit redundant. Plus we had pumpkins in the studio which just cluttered the place up. Halloween 2011- I was hopeful that 2011 would be the year that Rory and I did some sort of couples costume, but alas, Halloween crept up on me, and I ended up just pulling out the old orange tights again. Halloween 2012- No excuses this year. I set out to find the best cheap couple(ish) costume I could find. I learned something in the process. I’ve been to Party City a handful of times this year and every time I went, there was hardly anyone else there. I’ve been wondering how they stay in business with such low traffic and low costs. I now know that October/Halloween single-handedly keeps Party City in business, I’m pretty sure. Anyway, I spent what felt like hours there scouring the place for the perfect costume. Finally, I walked out of there with a pack of red balloons and a pack of green balloons. I spent the next hour blowing them up, and let me tell you, my jaw still aches from blowing. Then I safety pinned the red ones to Rory’s red shirt and the green ones to my green shirt. That part was actually kind of tricky since Rory wasn’t home and wouldn’t get home until about 5 minutes before we had to leave, so I had to guess as to where to pin them. The final touch was to stick leaves in our hair. Can you guess what we were?! We were a bunch of grapes. Costume total- less than $10 for the both of us! Success! I realize purple would have been ideal, but neither of us own a purple shirt… so green and red it was! Thanks, Suzie for the photo! Next Halloween- I’m already brainstorming mom, dad, and BABY costume ideas!!! (And you can be dang sure I’ll take photos!)
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Candace - Rachel is the absolute best!!! We love working with her so much! This is the third shoot we have done with her and the pictures are always beyond what we expect. She is fabulous to work with. We just love her!
admin - Thanks, Candace! I just love working with YOU!